私がいたって彼がいうこと聞く訳ないじゃない。

I; me; private affairs; personal matter; secrecy; selfishness

indicates sentence subject (occasionally object); indicates possessive (esp. in literary expressions); but; however; still; and

to arrive at (e.g. a decision); to reach (a stage); to attain; to lead to (a place); to get to; to come; to arrive; to result in

he; him; his; boyfriend

to do up (hair); to braid; to fasten; to fix

thing; matter; incident; occurrence; event; something serious; trouble; crisis; circumstances; situation; state of affairs; work; business; affair; after an inflectable word, creates a noun phrase indicating something the speaker does not feel close to; nominalizing suffix; pretending to ...; playing make-believe ...; alias; aka; nickname; alternative name; also known as

to hear; to listen (e.g. to music); to ask; to enquire; to query; to learn of; to hear about; to follow (advice); to comply with; to smell (esp. incense); to sample fragrance

conclusion from reasoning, judgement or calculation based on something read or heard; reason; cause; meaning; circumstances; situation

not; emphatic suffix

then; well; so; well then; combination of 'de' and 'wa' particles; plain copula